While Scorpio and 8th House have some similarities: need for transformation, interest in deep and dark matters, intensity of emotions; they are still different as in 8th house deals with other people’s money, a secretive life, lots of secrets, dealing with partnership, death and rebirth.
What is seen with these natives, especially ladies, is that their relationship or marriage is never “stable”. You see how ladies like to flaunt their husbands, post pictures and how much they love their partner to social media and be in public eye? But these natives are the kind to hide their relationship. As if it is not true love if it needs public approval. Also, we see how couples stay the same way 5+ or 15+ years later as if nothing has changed; but for these 8th houser couples, they reborn so many times that they don’t even know who they were 5 months back. Two different types of lives!
Here, the wife and husband/girlfriend and boyfriend are both cynical type, suspicious, reading people, their intentions, behaviour, motivations, emotions. They never relax until they get to the root of any matter and then pick another matter and question, question, question everything. Trust is important to them, even more than euphoria of love.
Why Trust?
Their life theme is usually that their childhood and relationship history are such that it is twisted, confusing, as if they were sleepwalking through a relationship and never really there. For this reason, when the relationship finally breaks down, they begin to realize how it was all just a delusion! Here, a relationship or situationship is the catalyst to bring all childhood memories to the surface and healing is a prerequisite to a better improved relationship. But all this is not easy! When they awaken from the state of “sleepiness” then their reality is shifted! Oh, I missed that red flag! Oh-he was keeping secrets from me! Oh, that was manipulation tactic! Oh, he was just like my father!! Their reality is shattered and results in cognitive dissonance, chaos, breakdown, obsessive rumination, ego dissolves, problems with self concept come to surface. “Healing” for them means to work on their Self Concept, that is, identity, confidence, self respect, boundaries, getting rid of emotional brain fog, learning what a relationship is supposed to look like, learning individuation.
8th house Venus is natural shadow worker. She intuitively knows the traits, flaws, faults, motivations, darkness and morbidity in other people. But her tendency is to integrate those dark parts in herself which is why 8H dissolves the boundary between right and wrong, bad and good, moral and immoral. To understand herself, she understands other humans. Not just the light and positive parts but the psychopathic, criminal, morbid, terrifying, scary human psychology. It is like food to her soul, to know the suffering and pain in the world. A sadist or a spiritually awakened being?
Since cognitive dissonance is a big thing for her, her no 1 priority in relationship is someone whom she can trust. Someone who will maintain her reality, will be honest, give her emotional security and keep her mentally stable. A dishonest or deceptive lover is her nightmare because the chaos of “figuring out my boyfriend” will drain her. She needs someone who is transparent and self aware so that her emotions are stablized and fears under control.
Husband
Like attracts like. Boyfriend/husband himself is mirror to these ladies. He is also suspicious, cynical, peeling layers of emotions, craving depth, has unstable self concept unless he is actively working on it, jealousy and possessive are not cute things, they are symptoms of weak Self concept. Since both parties are similar in nature, they understand each other. But not every marriage is that fulfilling! Sometimes partners are really incompatible or the awakening never happens, 8th house never activates. So, just 8th placement is not enough but the timing and dasha will determine how spiritual, healer, psychic they are.
Partner may have this past history, all or any of them:
Man with trauma, dark childhood
Loving a man with dark past
Scapegoat of his family
Fragile masculinity, emasculated by society
Emotionally neglected by his parents
Her man needs healing, security and understanding
He is a hunter type, fears abandonment, controlling
Mommy issues, his mom was a dragon, devours him, he is afraid of his femininity
Man is psychically penetrating, hyperalert, always reading the room, sensitive to energy, psychic types
Most Important
If Venus is in 8th house, this marriage is life changing. Transformative. Significant status difference between maiden life and married life. “Woah! She married that gentleman! He is so rich.” Like in Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth Bennett marries Mr. Darcy who is high class, wealthy and royalty type. There is something luxurious, old money, typical about this marriage. A typical politically connected or socially prestigious family. Sometimes people say 8th house is Karmic, fated, to let go control, money owed to them. I wonder if it is their husband who is paying back her debts to her? Is that why marriage transforms her life? Is marriage a karmic contract to pay back her loan given to husband? Perhaps it is.
Forced to Inner World
At some point in her life, she realized that her life was not quite same as others. She got aware of “psyche” something which has no evidence and is not scientific or physically seen. But for these natives, they are intuitively aware of psyche and how it surrounds us everywhere. In Man and His Symbols, Dr. Carl Jung says how the primitive people were so unconscious that they simply acted on their impulses and the images they saw in their head. They even thought that the animals and trees were their soul/spirit and were deeply submerged in the unconscious. 8th house is like that state of unconsciousness and then you come to awareness with a shock and again go back to unconsciousness. We are living in a flow state and only when something crisis, emergency or catastrophic happens that we awaken and soon go back to the flow state. That “awakening” is the hallmark of this house.
Another thing to be seen here is that these natives are forced to live in the inner world. They do not choose spirituality but have no choice - are forced to choose it. Since their emotions and conscience are quite sharp, they “feel” their way through life. (Trigger warning death) Let’s say you killed your parents’ dog accidentally and hid it in their own backyard and then lied about it to your parents when they asked where dog is. As the days go by, you feel that regret growing larger and larger. It creeps on you, eats you from inside, feels heavy in your body. That “I did something wrong” feeling never goes away. Imagine living with that feeling 24x7, that is your conscience.
For these natives, their conscience is just hyperactive. It is their guide through life. If they dismiss their conscience, they are faced with external consequences in physical life. There is a saying “As above, so below” which fits to these natives, which means that the inner life and outer life are just the reflection of each other. If we sit back to think about the past, we realize how everything is connected to everything else. That nothing was random. Self-reflection and pattern seeking are highlighted in this house. Any planet that is placed in 8th or 12th house is partially submerged in the underworld and the only way to maintain a life is to dig that “hidden” something. Occult tools, psychoanalysis, reading people, meditation are really helpful to make the unconscious comprehensible. This way they can even avoid the unnecessary unpreditable sufferings of this house.
I have seen how native if lives absent mindedly, without thinking of their actions, they always face instant karma in physical life or the psychic life. In psychic world, they feel guilt, unexplainable regret, negative emotions, shame, depression, etc. If they ignore these symptoms for too long, it will all explode with a blast BUT the healing will finally begin. For the sake of your mental stability, keep doing self reflection and avoid unnecessarily events and suffering.
It takes some time and understanding to realize what Self awareness means. The society we live in, cultural and social behaviours are contrary to self awareness. We live in an extraverted, materialistic, narcissistic society; you have to just be opposite of that – introverted, spiritual and empathetic. These natives are not born healers, they are wounded healers. They may even feel external locus of control and surrender to psychic forces because their life is just so stormy.
My only advice is: To keep your eyes open! Just because your friends or some celebrities can indulge in behaviours and get away with it, it does not mean that you can too. Instant Karma is something that happens in 8th housers life a lot. Once you identify it, you can then change your behaviour and language to avoid these suffering.
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So here I am again my peoples with another astro post. I hope you all enjoy it and remember I am no professional so don’t take it too seriously. Am just happy to make another one after having some bad sick days.
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Ok, so I noticed this recently, but are there any other Lilith in 4th people who are shallow breathers? Like Lilith rules repressed instinct and the 4th House rules lungs so it makes sense.
Now I’m going to go off on a tangent, but I think where Aries is located in the chart could tell you how and where you’re most likely to swear. This is just a theory tho (mars also plays a role)
I find that Pluto in 1st people go through rotational periods of obsession with their interests. Like you’re obsessed with one thing and then the obsession dies down so you move on to the next interest and eventually you’re obsessed with your original obsession again. (does this make sense???)
Sun Trine Neptune culture is being mistaken for being lazy, because of how chill and laid back you come across. There are also tendencies to be self-sacrificing and easily picking up on occult topics.
Ceres Conjunct Juno in Synastry means the relationship could be very nurturing. It will most likely be more so for the Juno person as the Ceres person will be there to care for them and help them grow, taking on the supportive role in the relationship.
Mars in the 6th House could have an unhealthy obsession with doing things perfectly and could become unsatisfied or even angry when said “perfection” is not achieved.
People with prominent Neptune or pisces placements, do you sometimes just feel like your a bystander instead of an active participant in your life?
So I always wondered why a rejection from my past crush hurt so much and well…turns out my Pisces Moon ass made and emotional attachment to an Aquarian Venus and I just- 🤡
The part I hate most about being a Virgo Venus is falling for wild, unruly types thinking you can fix them when in reality you can’t fix them and they more than likely will leave you broken instead.
Venus Square Uranus is the personification of commitment issues. (Sorry not sorry)
Personally, why are Sagittarius Suns so sexy? Like for what? Most of you have really beautiful legs I’ve noticed🙈
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I hope you guys enjoy this set of notes, because I’m low-key feeling really insecure about this one. Let me know if this resonates and I hope you all have a delectably sweet day.
Today I’ll do a relatively short observation of the Aqua and Taurus moon compatibility. I hope this gives you more insight on the placements, enjoy xoxo
I’ve touched up on this subject before actually and I think it’s a compatible match, the most important thing to note is that the Taurus sometimes need to meet up to the Aquarian’s spontaneous energy to keep both stimulated right. Both are fixed signs and therefore would understand a more rigid and stubborn mentality. If you feel that opposites attract then I believe this placement works out just fine.
This is because Taurus is a more sensual, romantic and practical placement (emotional). The Taurus moon would want a soft hearted and warm relationship where they can feel like they thrive. The Taurus moon will be likely to provide a solid commitment and the growth that follows. They are able to invest a huge chunk of their energy into their partner. They know how to treat and respect you for your individual talents, and generally make great friends. When attracting a Taurus moon you will need to appeal to both their fun-loving side and their dignified sense of privilege, which the Aquarius moon can provide.
The Aquarian is more ruled by their head, intelligent and theoretical (logical). The Aquarius moon would like to provide lots of wisdom, friendliness and experimentation in the relationship. This can manifest itself as trying to better the overall compatibility between the partners, they are open to working through and deal with challenges as well as breaking new highs. Preferably, their partner will understand their idealism and see it as a source of strength and inspiration for both of them. You will be particularly successful in a relationship with them when you can demonstrate that you understand what they are thinking or feeling before they express it, this the Taurus moon can actually meet because they are emotionally driven.
I think the only thing that should be noted would be that both placements tend to be opinionated about things, it’s important to share similar values to each other. I think these two balance each other out perfectly and if both emotionally intelligent - will thus workout just fine. Make sure to also talk about childhood memories and what backgrounds you guys grew up in, that would be a very interesting topic for both of you to talk about and gives perfect amount of details to get to know each other without getitng bored. This is due to their curious yet substantial nature.
Aquarius Moon and Taurus Moon may have a very strong attraction to one another, they may both learn a lot that will enrich each of their lives a great deal. My apologies for the late answer, I hope this helped <3
Compatibility; balancing their interest in personal and future goals Potential complications; different values and desires in life Overall match: 77%
